I am a very calm person who really doesn't like to have problems or drama in my life. I try to keep myself out of trouble as much as I can. I believe as you grow up, the more mature you get, the more you need to get out of the "kid" mindset and into the "adult" mindset. I always tell my friends, especially my girls that I don't really follow the "girl code". In my opinion, I think that's very childish and stupid. I live my own life by my choices, my actions, MY codes; which is what is right and what is wrong.
At the end of the day, the person realized she was wrong for calling disloyal without giving me a chance to explain. We both agreed that we have different perspectives which is why we didn't see eye to eye at first. I will always value my friendships and be the best friend I can be but I won't let my friends opinions and problems change how I think or believe.